How to prepare for your family portrait session
You’ve secured the date and made the family photoshoot booking. Now what?
Here’s the advice that I offer to my clients leading up to a family photoshoot.
Timeless Family Portrait in black & white
1. Coordinate your outfits
Start with a Color Palette: Select 3–4 complementary hues (e.g., navy, soft pink, cream, and olive). Avoid everyone wearing the same exact shade because variation adds depth. Think “coordinated” not “cloned.”
Matching white shirts and jeans? Ja, noh….we can give that look a rest now.
Mix Textures & Layers: Incorporate knits, denim, linen, or lace for visual interest. Also consider layering with scarves, cardigans, or vests for easy variety.
Balance Patterns & Solids: Meaning if one person wears a bold pattern, others should choose more neutral pieces to maintain balance. Avoid large graphics as these tend to be distraction.
Comfort always wins: If your kid hates that scratchy sweater, don’t force it. If they’re uncomfortable, their photoshoot experience will not be pleasant. As a result, their facial expression will show. Trust me on this one!
2. Your hair, your face, your life
Hair: Schedule haircuts 1–2 weeks before the session—not the day of.
Makeup: Keep it natural and slightly heavier than usual to counteract camera wash-out.
For Kids: Clean nails, clean faces and tidy hair. Done.
Final Touches: Bring a small grooming kit (brush, comb, tissues, deodorant and lip balm).
3. What to bring
Props: Subtle and simple is always better. You’re the stars—not the oversized chalkboard sign.
I’ve got you covered with snacks & water. Just bring big big energy!
4. Working with your photographer
Share Your Vision: I recommend sharing inspiration images (Pinterest boards, Instagram tags) before even making the booking as this may be a deal breaker. It is important to be aligned from the start.
Communicate “must-have” shots (e.g., multigenerational group, candid tickling moments).
Communicate Special Needs: Allergies, mobility concerns, etc.
Trust the photographer’s direction: Natural laughter comes when you’re having fun, not from holding stiff poses. Relax and allow the photographer to guide you.
5. On the day….be cool
Arrive early so you’re not rushing and sweat-stained.
Don’t yell at your kids in the car. Their faces remember.
Let go of perfection. We’re aiming for joy, connection, and a few “aww” moments—not magazine covers (unless Vogue calls).
Laugh. Tickle. Hug. Be weird. It makes for the best photos. Trust me.
6. After the session
You’ll get a gallery of images where you all look incredible.
Choose your favorites, hang ‘em up, post ‘em, brag to your friends. You did it!
And when you’re ready to do it all again next year… I’ll be here, camera in hand with snacks ready for you.
Final thoughts
Take a deep breath. Embrace the chaos. Trust the process.
Remember: the best family photos are the ones that feel like you—silly, loving, chaotic, real.
I hope this helps. Bless.
